平衡點在哪

 

有的時候，裡面的人玩得很開心，外面的人累得半死。

有的時候，外面的人很亢奮，裡面的人卻無感。

☆.。.:*・°☆.。.:*・°☆.。.:*・°☆.。.:*

“They mean well, unfortunately. Femdom-as-a-culture is currently over-saturated with things that cater to the fantasies of male subs more so than female doms. To be a domme is to be perennially assumed that your primary interest is performing in a way that meets the needs of subs. An additional pressure is applied that not only is your authenticity measured by how well you meet another person’s fantasy, it is idealized that you just happen to do so by being who you are. A push/pull forms around you, where you being powerful is fetishized, but that power is put on very tight rails.”

「不幸的是，他們的意思是好的。調教作為一種文化目前過度飽和，更多地迎合了男性 sub 而不是女性 dom 的幻想。成為 domme 就是永遠假設你的主要興趣是以滿足 sub 需求的方式進行表演。施加的額外壓力是，你的真實性不僅是透過你滿足他人幻想的程度來衡量的，而且理想化的是，你恰好透過做你自己來做到這一點。在你周圍形成一種推/拉，你的力量被迷戀，但這種力量被置於非常嚴格的軌道上。」

— Miss Pearl 珍珠小姐

— Non-professional perspective femdom & kink, with awesome erotica.